Parenting is not easy. We are constantly faced with decisions about how to raise our kids in a world that is changing all the time. How do we keep up? What do we teach them? How do we ensure they are safe and loved from the moment they are born? It’s difficult to know what will work best for each child.
There are many different parenting styles, but one thing is certain: we can’t just have one. We have to provide our kids with balance. This blog post will explore the differences between parenting styles and offer tips on how to raise healthy children in today’s society.
Different parenting styles
There are many different parenting styles that have been debated - and some we may not even be aware of. The idea is to find a balance between them all so that our children can experience the best of what each has to offer.
Traditional parenting is when the parents set strict guidelines, enforce rules, and require full obedience from their children. Authoritarian parenting is when the parents use a combination of love and punishment (mostly punishment) in order to get their child to obey. Permissive parenting is when there are few or no boundaries set for the child; this includes few or no rules and little discipline. The parent looks at the child as an equal instead of someone who needs guidance.
How do you know which style is right for your child?
It’s hard to know which parenting style is right for your child. Some people believe that the best parents are ones who provide a healthy balance of parenting styles. And what is that balance?
- Authoritative: Authoritative parents set boundaries and rules, but they also create an environment where their children feel loved and cared for. Kids need to know that they are loved and cared for. But they also need boundaries and rules in order to feel safe. This type of parenting balances both love and discipline well.
- Permissive: The problem with permissive parenting is that it does not allow children to have any limits or have any responsibilities. When kids have no limitations, then there really isn't anyone telling them no or enforcing consequences when they do something wrong. This can lead to irresponsible adults later in life because these children grow up without learning the natural consequences that come from doing something wrong or breaking a rule.
- Uninvolved: If you have uninvolved parents, then you'll never really get feedback about how you're doing as a parent or how your children are doing as kids. Uninvolved parents don't enforce boundaries or discipline their children at all, so these kids grow up with no guidance at all, which can lead to behavioral problems as they get older.
- Neglectful: In neglectful homes, the parents aren't physically present enough in the home due to work commitments or other reasons like substance abuse or mental health issues. These kids never feel seen
Balancing parenting styles
It is crucial to balance parenting styles in order to raise healthy children. A report from the National Science Foundation found that an increasing number of kids are being raised in a single-parent household. Furthermore, the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) reports that 21 percent of moms are raising their children on their own.
This leaves mothers and fathers with some tough decisions about how to raise their children. How do they implement different parenting styles when they don’t have someone else to help?
One approach is to utilize different approaches as needed or desired. For example, parents might use authoritative parenting style for tasks like homework or discipline, but switch to permissive or uninvolved parenting styles for tasks like bedtime and play time. Another approach is to implement a mix of these styles throughout the day, such as authoritative during the morning and permissive during the evening. No matter what you decide, it’s important to provide your child with balance.